"I think I've spent 30 years of my life,
the first 30, trying to become something.
I wanted to become good at things,
I wanted to become good at tennis,
I wanted to become good at school and grades...
and everything I kind of viewed in that perspective:
I'm not OK the way I am, but if I got good at things...
...and I realized that I had the game wrong.
The game was to find out what I already was."
